Excellent post. I would imagine that the vast majority of people feel exactly this way whichever way they lean. The poles probably make the most noise though and that's who gets the attention. The answer has to be a middle ground.
There is an engineering YouTube channel that addresses the grid issue. I will try to find and post.
I am certainly no expert on tax code but if private industry gets tax payer funds, whether before or after the fact, it's a subsidy. Like the people who feel the need to say the US isn't a democracy, it's a republic. That is like saying it's not a dog, it's a Labrador.