I too, believe the true barometer of your program is regular season success. I believe that if you build a solid program and dominate your conference, post season success will follow. I also see teams make the NCAA tournament with .500 records or worse. They got hot in their conference tournament and went to the dance to get killed by a 1 or 2 seed.
I'm with C4L, I'd be thrilled ( at this stage) with 3 NIT's out of 5 years. My only concern with your post and previous posts is that you constantly bring up the past and compare Marlin's tenure to the past to justify why we should believe Marlin when he says our program is the standard in the SBC.
Over the years we've put, supposedly, a lot more emphasis and resources into our athletic programs with facility construction or enhancements, much higher coaching pay and resources etc. to bring a better product to the stage but we really aren't doing that. Again, I don't see people wanting to bash Marlin but to many, there is a distinct lack of return from the money we are asked to donate and pay.