I have 2 daughters 16 and 11. So far not a lot of drama with either. I think the key is steer them to sports. They have always played something since the 3rd grade. I was always in the yard throwing, hitting, kicking or catching something with those 2. Basketball, football, softball, soccer whatever. The oldest talked about trying out for cheerleader in the 6th grade. I told her why cheer for somebody when you can get cheered for. They get their agression out on the field and not on me.