I've been thinking along the same lines.. How is it within the rules of the NCAA for a former coach to be in touch with players on the current roster, trying to lure them away to another school; especially if it's going to boost said coaches job opportunities? I realize that this is all hear-say, but if someone stepped in and started asking questions, chances are, the players would tell the truth (Maybe not Gradnigo). If this story has any legs at all, it should not be taken lightly, IMO.
I don't think you're in the minority Dave. I think everyone is sad to see a kid with that much potential both waste it and leave the program. But at the same time, I think its best for both parties at this point. Nothing against the guy personally, but to quote Mike Singletary, "I want winners". That guy is not a winner. Not with an attitude like that, and an immaturity problem that infects a locker room.