Last couple of things I would like to mention......
Keep in mind, the title of this thread is "The case against small ball" and I'm just trying to give a different view / perspective.
To your point JMV, there have been bunt attempts that I didn't understand as well. Including the couple of scenarios you mentioned in a previous response. However, can anyone on this board say without doubt that the player didn't choose the bunt attempt on their own? Maybe read something in the defense and trying to make something happen, didn't feel confident with their matchup vs the pitcher they were facing, etc.? I am not saying that was the case, but may be possible. I'm just not sure that in any instance those attempts (be it successful or not) changed any outcomes. Meaning, although some (maybe many) scratched their heads I don't think it warrants such frustrations and annoyance that it is causing some, other than just a personal dislike to a certain coaching style / philosophy.
Also as I have stated earlier in my very limited action on here, using "season averages" and "stats" to prove a point or drive home a narrative is flawed and subjective at best. My logic is simply this, I have read about the .300+ averages being allowed to hit and drive in runs for big innings. What are those same averages vs. elite pitching, in big moments of high pressure situations. Nothing against those young ladies (I have coached several and wish every one of them success) but I would think the reality of it is the numbers go way down, hence creating an even higher run probability for the strategic bunt vs. the "big inning".
I am also far from a stats expert but I can almost guarantee that the "big inning" and batting averages diminish significantly against elite pitching. Maybe VO can get us some numbers based on that criteria. I may actually be shocked and learn something new, but then again what is considered "elite" pitching becomes somewhat subjective. LOL