I felt the same way about my dad and Fox news and the daily hate and rage bait, so you have a point about older people being sucked into that vortex(no pun intended).
I think I want my meteorologist to lay out the possibilities and let me know the worst of what could happen so that I can plan for that and be pleasantly surprised if it's not as bad. Erring on the side of caution and not taking the chance on downplaying a potentially dangerous situation is not the same as fear mongering.