Are you going to give your son permission to refer to the university he attended as "his university" many years after he attended? And yes, those that give hundreds of thousands are very good friends with those that give thousands and those that give hundreds of dollars... so we all influence our leadership at UL (on alumni matters). Most of those large donors, by the way, are over 50. You're delusional if you think any university isn't massively affected by all alumni that "graduated 30 years ago".