First off, I'm not sure why you resurrected my post when I admitted 20 hours before that I was wrong about TOPS in regards to football. But being this is hypothetical b/c TOPS does not = Full-Ride offer (in football), I'll keep playing along.
A football player has 2 options:
Option 1: Offered full-ride to play at UL (but has good enough grades to have another avenue pay for tuition), will have signing day party at his HS to celebrate the achievement. Chooses to be 1 of 25 players to receive Full-Ride
Option 2: Offered full-ride to play at UL (but has good enough grades to have another avenue pay for tuition), will have signing day party at his HS to celebrate the achievement of being good enough to sign LOI. Chooses to be 1 of 26 players worthy of receiving Full-Ride offer, opts for secondary avenue to allow team to sign 1 extra quality player
You can slice it however many ways you want, by the amount of players on the team, by your age, whatever. If that kid picks Option 1, he is selfish. And more than likely will continue to be selfish. In this hypothetical, he would get the exact same thing out of Option 1 (opportunity to play D1 ball, a "special" day, free education) yet he would open the door for an extra potential game changer player to join OUR team.
*Again, I understand TOPS does not cover all expenses, hence I was wrong in my original post.