Believe me. The recruiting game is much harder to deal with for a parent than just being able to go enjoy games & pull for the team. Because you try to be honest with yourself & your child within their level of ability to begin with. Then as you see them up close against the best of the best in your region. You realize where they stack up good or bad. If he wasn't at the top of the heap this whole mess wouldn't be so hard for me to handle. I could just say son you're okay, but these are better. I think this is a place you should look at. Or over here is a nice little program.
Then you hear how the process is going with the big schools chasing around eighth & ninth graders. Many of whom end up in so much trouble they either have to have a personal handler their whole time in school. Or they become complete discipline problems the whole time they're at school. Or they end up in prison throwing away an athletic career. Yet schools spend all kinds of money chasing that kind of player around all the time. And much of the time that guy is two years older than anyone else so they SHOULD be that far ahead of the rest of the crowd. Then when all the kids get older & the crowd catches up. All of a sudden that kid isn't so special any more. And you begin to see the fruits of your particular child's hard work. But the system is so set on chasing certain players that have been recruited for the past two or three years. That you find your son is fighting for scraps off the recruiting table because he has the label of late bloomer.
WTF is a late bloomer? A late bloomer is a guy whose parents made the decision not to hold their kid back a year so he could graduate with his rightful graduating class because that was important to their son. A late bloomer is that guy who chose to stay at the school he was at because of the education he was getting & realized that there is life after sports. So he chose education over sports. A late bloomer is somone whose father overcame himself to do what was best overall for his son instead of doing what he knew would be best for his football career should he become the man my son has become. So this whole process stinks like ____ to me. I don't like it at all. And I can see it continuing all through his entire senior season. In which case all bets are off. We're just gonna take the highest rated program that offers regardless of past affiliations or support. But you can believe me, it wasn't what I hoped for. That was not my intention. I have been pushed into this corner & we will respond accordingly.