Thank you!!!
I just turned 21 in March, but I've been drinking since I was about 18. Now, before I started classes at UL, my mom sat down with me and basically told me that the choice is mine. She doesn't like me doing it, but there's nothing she can do to stop me. She said that she did her best to teach me to be responsible (which, for being a single mom from the time I was 2 until I was about 13, she did a damn good job), but that ultimately it was up to me now. She also told me that if I ever needed a ride, I could call her, and she'd come get me, without any consequences. I respected her for doing that, and I'll be damned if I didn't leaver her a note, or tell her what was up everytime I went out, so that she wouldn't worry.
Now that I've moved out of her house, and live on my own, I always make sure I have a ride, or if not, I cut myself off or make time to sober up, whatever the case it. I didn't see any difference in myself from when I turned 18, to when I turned 21. The only thing I couldn't do was maybe have a beer at Texas Roadhouse, or buy a beer at games.
People need to be realistic. They need to step up and be good parents. Know that their children are going to drink and let them know about the consequences of the decisions they make. If I had ever gotten in trouble for drinking when I wasn't supposed to, my mom wouldn't have been mad, she would have just been disappointed in me because she knows I know better. I couldn't have done that to her.
My professor put it well this morning. We can't decide when the hell children turn into adults. At 17, you'll be charged as an adult if you commit a crime. You can smoke tobacco, buy Lotto tickets, vote and join the military when you're 18, but you can't drink or gamble? Its ridiculous! The government needs to make up its damn mind!