CRM...As I understand it, you are the mother of a current or former player, and it is with that in mind that I say this with all due respect.
we are not at liberty to question how each of us deals with this situation. I am not directing most of this at you, but at several folks on this board. Some will say, like you have, that if you are overly critical of the situation, then you are not a true fan. Others will say (i.e. I Hate La State) that if you aren't critical enough, then you are not a true fan. Both arguments are short sided because each of us have different personalities and different involvements with the program. I would suspect that someone like you, or MissingMandy, GBBaseball, or other parent's of players, would sympathize with the players more than others, because they work hard and go through a lot of hell in order to wear that name on their jersey's. then there are guys around here that are older...they've been through a lot with this program, and have somewhat desensitized themselves to all the bad times, but are still able to stay hopeful in that their loyalty will pay off one day. Some of those are still preaching the positives, some are getting restless. then you have the younger guys. Guys like me and SRevere51 (we went to high school together, trust me, he is a fan and meant nothing derogatory to the players by starting this thread). We don't have a child on the team, so we might not care about the stuff they go through on a daily basis. and, we are young enough and progressive enough to desire much more from a program with so much potential. We didn't experience the Death Penalty. We didn't experience all the crap from authement and Shexnayder. Perhaps we don't know any better. Perhaps we are naive. But, we are confident that by speaking out and making our voices and our discontent heard, that we will influence a change.
there are some of us in each of these groups of fans that have dealt with this situation both calmly and hastily. But the common denominator is that we are all fans. We all want the answer. We all want the guys to get their recognition, but we also all want wins. Some of us are more concerned that the players know that they are supported and will continue to attend the games. On the other hand, some of us would rather boycott the games in hopes that improvements are made.
Again, CRM, this is not directed exclusively at you, so I hope that I don't offend you, but its directed at everyone. there's no need for us to take runs at each other questioning each others commitment to this football team. We all have our opinions and feelings.
BUT, I WILL ASK THAT IF YOU ARE GOING TO COME ON THIS BOARD AND SAY THE COACH SHOULD BE FIRED, THEN PLACE A CALL TO THE POWERS THAT BE (AUTHEMENT, WALKER, FARMER, BUSTLE), AND IF YOU FEEL THAT THE COACH SHOULD BE GIVEN ANOTHER CHANCE, THE PLACE A CALL TO THE POWERS THAT BE (AUTHEMENT, WALKER, FARMER, BUSTLE).
THIS IS OUR TEAM AND WE SHOULD TAKE OWNERSHIP IN IT. IF YOU DON'T LIKE HOW ITS BEING DONE, THEN STEP UP AND DEMAND CHANGE. TAKING SHOTS AT EACH OTHER WILL NOT CHANGE ANYTHING, BUT MAKING YOUR VOICES HEARD WILL!!!!!