Many people sacrifice for their families, give up their time to work, and never see their kids. Because they HAVE to. Mike doesn't. He has the money. It's a choice. He said today on the radio: "When they were younger, we could raise them at the field. Well now we have a sophomore and a 12 year old, and they have their own lives... I would rather be a great dad and Steph be a great mom than be a great coach."
Some sacrifice FOR their families. Others choose their career INSTEAD OF their families. THAT'S the choice he faces. He's not coaching FOR his family. He's not coaching to keep a roof over his family's heads.
"I love these kids. But I spend more time with these kids than my own kids. I'm struggling with this. This is hard."
"Some people will call you a traitor or a deserter. How are you treating your kids?'"
"You read all the books. 'I was a great coach, but I wasn't there for my kids.'"
"I said this for the 10 years I was the co-head coach. Only reason I was co-head coach was it was the law...spouses can't answer to each other. So we decided we'd be co-head coaches."
If you missed the interview, these quotes don't do it justice. The man shared his heart, cried, and put it all on the line. Stevie P. didn't ask him the hard stuff - Mike didn't give him a chance, because Mike brought it up. "Let's talk about the timing."
I'll leave you with one more:
"It's grueling. It's grinding. It's hard, man. The coaching isn't tough. The X's and O's aren't tough.."
Our AD can't make Lotief's love for his family take 2nd place to the Ragin' Cajuns. If that's what you expect from your AD, you need to examine your priorities.